adhoc 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 thanks guys for all the advice. it's nice to know that there are some ppl out there who care and are willing to share. well, actually sometimes i think i am completely over her, but sometimes without warning i'll feel sad again. it's like hepatitis b, you have it inside you but you never know when it's going to flareup. in all fairness though, these 'flareups' are ocurring less often. started this thread in the midst of a particularly bad one. thanks again for all the advice and well wishes. in the meantime, i'll remember bummer's advice particularly: In the mean time, keep listening to music and take it easy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fishball79 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 My 2 cents worth From the sound of it she was confused yet liked you. In a way attracted to you yet she did what she did. I can't tell u what u can do to win her back... but as with others and no matter how hard it is, I reccomend you get ur mind off her... only time heals. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blacknight 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 i think you should just forget her....she's not the only pebble on the beach.....moreover you 're still young, so you are still "in the market"! just move on, even if you ever get together again, do you think it'll last? That's the Q to ask yourself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mackie 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 (edited) adhoc, although I'm very much older than U, I hate to say your predicament is part and parcel of life. The girl is obviously smitten by puppy love and as much as U care for her, she's bound to be dropped by her former teacher. Let this be a lesson and experience for her. Think of it this way, U're good looking (I know cos' I've seen U) and shouldn't feel insecure in BGR. Her current behaviour has revealed to U how immature she is and let this be a caution to U. Even if the third party is not her ex teacher, any guy on the street will be able to sweep her off her feet and this forewarns of a weak emotional entanglement between U two. On this notion, how far would U two last? I don't wish to brag but I started dating when I was 14. Along the way, I used to feel my partner would be a steady girlfriend or potential life partner. How wrong it was! The world is much bigger out there and so is the variety. Take this as a cause for a relook of choices in life and better your studies and most of all........your music interest and audiophilia! Edited June 21, 2003 by Mackie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adhoc 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 mackie, WAH KAO MAN i am blushing like siao now man! you're too good man.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blacknight 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 if it is true, it's true....so just go on forward with your music! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
matbon0013 0 Report post Posted June 21, 2003 Mackie, I would tip my hat to you too! Word of respect Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
varian 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2003 AND Mackie has a beautiful wife now, too. I know cos' I've seen [her] :-) Hey adhoc.. finding the "right" one shouldn't be this hard and this painful. You'll know it when it happens. Keep the music alive! (And all the best in love, life and everything that you do.) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adhoc 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2003 wah, mackie, made it in life eh? hai i wonder where i would be and who i'll be with in, like 20 years time. hrmm guyferd, interested? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
matbon0013 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2003 Guys pinned down lah And he don't know it yet........ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blues 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2003 Myself mat you dare to talk behind me back naughty .. heh? me ah? yeah.. pretty much interested. reco me if you get to know chio buz hor... dun be selfish Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adhoc 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2003 haha what's going on? pls someone fill me in! dont shy dont shy.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blues 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2003 huh? wad ? what's going on... nothing laa... so how's life for u aaron? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
